If you want to fall in love, and you’ve had bad luck in the past, or you’re just unclear/not sure about what you want in someone……Make a wish list! it helps you be clear & to specify what actually matters to you! Here’s mine:

He’s a facilitator of dreams
he makes me laugh sooo much
he listens to me & actually likes to listen to what i have been storing up in my mind
he is my friend
he’s the most gorgeous sexy man I’ve ever seen
he’s extremely smart
he’s charming
he’s great in social situations
non-smoker
he drinks every once in a while

he’s successful & loves the work that he does
he’s funny
he’s witty
he’s quick-witted
he’s very stylish
i make him laugh
he doesn’t make me angry
we make each others lives BETTER
i am his best friend
he is my best friend
he's a sexual innovator-creative & adventurous
i have no desire to cheat
he has no desire to cheat
we look great together
i love how i see myself through his eyes
to him, i am the most beautiful girl he’s ever seen
he totally gets my sense of humor
i totally get his sense of humor
he’s cool
he’s not a poser
he’s confident
he knows who he is
he inspires me
i inspire him

*YES, i know i rambled and said very BIG grandiose things! but who cares! love is crazy and exciting and amazing! and I’d rather dream big, rather than small! xoxo